• How can my partner and I break out of an endless series of confrontations and denials?
  • How do I get my partner to tell me the truth and be less defensive?
  • How can we begin to rebuild trust?
  • How can my partner and I create a more loving and compassionate relationship?

If you’re looking for the knowledge and skills needed to rebuild trust and repair your relationship, or if you want to come to terms with what you can realistically expect from your partner and learn how to bring out the best in their behavior, or if you just want some clarity and reassurance that moving on is the right thing to do, we wrote this book for you.

We have been through betrayals ourselves. More importantly, we have done research on the topic, taught classes on the subject, and helped thousands of couples work through their problems.

Tim has been studying issues of deception, betrayal, trust, and romantic relationships for decades. Our romantic relationships are incredibly complex—much more complex than even a calculus problem. They are also the most important connections we have. Nothing in life matters more than loving someone else and being loved in return. But being in love isn’t easy. So many things can and do go wrong.