I’m seeing someone on a casual basis, when we first started seeing each other he was seeing two other people, and I was fine with this as long as he was honest with me. I had terrible experiences in past relationships where my partners lied to me, and I have a deep fear of believing […]
Trust Issues
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Both of us cheated — any hope?
I cheated on my husband of 10 years with a younger, single man. This was the first and only time I’ve ever done anything like this. I felt unappreciated and unloved by my husband when the guy friended me and the cheating started. My husband caught me and I realized how crazy and irrational my […]
My husband has cheated on me repeatedly and shows no interest in changing
I have gone through 2 years of finding out my husband has been engaged in serial cheating with hookers and now on-line dating. In August, I had the evidence in hand. He used rage, blame and denial to get out of it. I told him I needed him to help us rebuild trust, but he […]
My partner is lying to me about her whereabouts
My partner and I are both 55 years old. We have been together for over 12 months. I sold my home and moved in with my partner while I was getting my new home updated. After 5 months my partner asked me to leave after a minor disagreement. We didn’t see each other for 3 […]
My husband won’t let go of the fact that I cheated on him
I cheated on my husband 15 years ago. To this day, he still thinks I’m cheating on him. I’m not. My cheating was a one-time mistake. I cheated because I didn’t feel that my husband cared for me and I formed and emotional connection to someone at work, which led to an affair. The truth […]
My boyfriend’s past betrayal comes up when we fight
So, I’ve been with my boyfriend for about a year and three months. Early into our relationship I caught him lying about hanging out with a friend of his of very questionable character. Because of that my trust with him was damaged; we’d constantly fight about where he was and what he was hiding from […]